April 23, 2010

I object! No, I don't.

Know your dope fiend. You will not be able to see his eyes because of tea shades, but his knuckles will be white from inner tension and his pants will be crusted with semen from constantly jacking off when he can't find a rape victim... ~Hunter Thompson/Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
A lot of people, especially those of conservative opinion and women who may or may not consider themselves as such but are feminists, regard pornography as inherently evil.

You may hear them say such things as:

It’s obscene.
It objectifies women.
It holds women back from obtaining a truly equal place in society.
It contributes to sex crimes and the existence of sexual predators.

Obviously, the people who say these things are fucking retarded.

From a personal perspective, I belong to a social site set up for “adults” where you are allowed, if you choose, to post NSFW (not safe for work) photos in a separate folder marked appropriately to identify the contents within. I have such a folder and while I’m not spread eagle on a bear skin rug with a vibrator in position and a blow pop in my mouth in any photos contained within my NSFW folder, I am not fully dressed in most. I suppose some people might consider it a bit slutty and might even say I have no respect for myself but I tend to disagree.

For one, I love those photos of myself. I love myself for being comfortable enough with who I am to be able to post them and quite frankly, I’m one of the only people I have respect for in this world. While I can’t say I’m 100% comfortable in my skin, I love the fact that I’m comfortable enough to take and share such photographs.

I have well over 200 pictures on this site with only about 30 in the aforementioned folder. I have to say I get just as many compliments, if not more, on face pics as I do the “naughty” bits. Evenstill, “I’m jerking off to you right now” is a text I sometimes randomly get. I take it as a compliment, though. I don’t feel objectified in the least. The people who tell me I’m the fuel for their masturbatory fantasies are people who have talked to me often, laughed at my jokes or writing, took the time to get to know me a bit…they text to ask how I’m doing much more often than to tell me they’re cumming to my image. These same people could pick any porn site and jerk off to any of the lovely ladies featured there in often way more revealing photos and involved in a myriad of tempting activities. Yet…they’ve chosen me. It’s a package deal. I’m witty and intelligent. Imperfect. Intensely sexual, yes. Tattooed, yes. Have naked pics online, yes…but it’s the whole entire me that fuels the lust not just my tits exposed in facebook photo album like fashion. I’m not objectified in the least. Not the way I see it. Attraction for everything I am leads to masturbation fantasy. I like it.

And even for those women who are on porn sites or in porn videos…they’ve made a conscious choice and most of them seem pretty fucking happy. If they don’t feel objectified, they aren’t. Don’t put something there that isn’t.

As for the rest of those ridiculous beliefs people have about porn, I could debate them all day long, but in the end, I’d have just one real conclusion. Those people have no clue what they’re talking about, haven’t researched it, and definitely don’t know the dynamics of sex crimes. Also, if they'd watch some porn and get laid like they need to, they'd never say such things.

So, in conclusion, keep jerkin’ it to my pics as often as you like. I’m flattered.

Dedicated to my friend Rob a.k.a. Mclovin who has never seen Superbad. <3

5 Comments:

Old Goat said...

You know, it would have been nice for both illustrative purposes and as a reward for those who take the time to read and comment here if you had provided a link to samples of the erotic photos of yourself you mentioned. ;) Or just take a few and text them to me...for analytical purposes only of course...

jenniy said...

i would've posted one or two right here if i didn't have family that read it occasionally

Old Goat said...

Probably would have gotten a significant web traffic boost. But really not worth making family moments extremely uncomfortable I guess.

Anonymous said...

Must ask to how to find your photo's now, lol. Hope all is well with you. Harry, POF

Anonymous said...

i checked out the photos

gross

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